Self-discipline, self-control is hard at the beginning. Yes, trying to figure out where to start is hard, even when trying to decide how to start our dream. You have to have some structure, some organization and seeing it by writing it down and making it part of your process in that search takes self-discipline and commitment. To commit to the process is hard and it can be difficult. But by having the discipline and control it would eventually become easier to see and eay to do. Successful people use Self-discipline and control to plow through what can cause others to quit. You have to discipline yourself to keep going, when you fall, get up and learn from it and continue on. Self-discipline and self-control will build self-confidence. Notice all of this starts with self and support will follow.