In our life, we try to define levels of control. Controls we have in ourself, self control. Control we have on others, and control others have on us. The control that you have in yourself is what dictates the emotions, the feelings that are brought up within you that discipline guides you that brings about a final outcome. Being aware of how you can control yourself is the inverse function of how others try to control you. If you understand some of the outer events that spark certain reactions gives you a gage needed to be able to adjust those reactions. A secret, is to never let others know that they have tap into an emotion that causes you to loose control of your focus. In order to work on such situations you have to be exposed to it, and look at how you handle the situation. By being aware of how you stand within the situation, gives you the strength to take some control. As they say, "don't let them see you sweat." Practrice, observing yourself reacting to different situations. Do you get angry, do you stay cool and collected, are you rattled and loose focus? Your journey to whatever dream, goal, results depends on how you control yourself in different situations. Your decisions will determine if you can handle the pressure and continue on your path to success or that you find yourself confused and unable to continue. Do you have the discipline needed to stay focus on the prize without being distracted? Stay focused on what is important and don't let those little distraction deter you from your dream. Family, friends, and naysayers can also be a hindrance. Take control, and try to be in control of your life, so you can be ready for the success that you seek.